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Thou Shalt Marry Me!

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I had a great time on Hope FM Tuesday night with Tessy. As we opened and shared on her show, 'Breath Of Heaven', we had opportunity to delve into some issues that deal with Singles. As a pastor, I've always considered myself familiar with the Challenges of Young and 'not so young' singles. But spending time on the show and from the feedback we received, I realized that the wounds run deeper, the torment rougher and the loneliness unbearable. So, I've decided to share with you some of the truths that I shared on that cold rainy night; Busting the Myths of Single hood. Here are the Myths that have kept Many Singles Held back and Lied to by the enemy. Let's go! 1.   There's a 'Particular' mate for you out there:   This is hogwash! Hakuna! God never makes choices for us, and Marriage is all about choices. If this was true, then it means God is in violation of the Principle of Free will, a Cardinal pillar in the fall of man, Death and Resurrection o...

Six Things Guys Notice Six Seconds after You Meet

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Hi Ya'll According to a new study, a person's physical appearance allows others to form surprisingly accurate first impressions. So as a lady, you may want to think twice about what kind of image you're projecting with these traits that men check out immediately. It makes a huge difference especially if you are believing for a relationship that will lead to marriage! Hear it from me, and i ain't hating! 1. Your Smile Does it seem sweet and genuine? Does it seem awkward and forced? Or you don’t smile at all? Smiling is a great way of communicating, saying I am happy about life and myself. Make sure the sukuma wiki  or whatever else you had for lunch doesn’t ruin your interactions. 2. Your Hair Guys have no idea what split ends are, and if you mention roots, they may start thinking of reggae. But they do look to see if your hair looks 1. Soft 2. Like its being taken care of and 3. Like it would smell good. Hairstyles don’t have to be fancy and costly, just make sure i...

Ladies! Avoid being clingy to a man!

Relating with a lot of young single people constantly brings up the issues of relationships time and time again. Guys will leave Girls because they complain that once the relationship gets going, women tend to become too Clingy! Yaani totally wrapping yourself around a guy till he can't breathe! Is this true? Has it happened to you? Well, I  thought to post this on here to kinda give some pointers to all the dear sisters out there! Here's how to enjoy relationships with jamaas while avoiding clinging to a guy too much! 1. Have your own life . Remember what you were like when you and your boyfriend first met? You had friends, hobbies, and lots of things that were not centered around him. Make sure you're still keeping up with those things. Doing so will make you happier, more interesting to him, and less likely to fixate entirely on your relationship. You In Love? Don't Forget Your Friends 2. Schedule things out . Having a weekly date night, a monthly day trip, or...

Coffee Date Anyone?

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The weather has been pretty tricky lately, and with all the rain and wetness around, temparatures have taken a dive. Well, tis time to spenda some quality time with Family and friends during this Easter Holidays. Finding things to do with others is always more rewarding than being all alone. I happen to be spending this Easter all Alone, Evie and Alexa have gone to visit her mom upcountry. Well, i won't let that dampen the mood. So i will spend some quality 'alone' or 'me' time A cuppa coffee, and my laptop will make the wait bearable. If you are alone this weekend, don't be a grump, give yourself a coffee or Tea or whatever drink you love break! If you're with family and Friends, Enjoy Yourself, Blessings ya'll!

The Harvest Fields

The Presence of God is an amazing thing. it has tremendous power to change lives and impact destinies. We really can never underestimate the power of God in the lives of people. Ever. When we go to the harvest field of souls, then our eyes Must be open and our hearts moved. We long to see the power of God at work in the hearts of men and women. Convicting, moving, challenging, and bringing forth the purpose of God for those people, the cross of Christ. However, my heart has been tremendously moved by the need for laborers. Coming from a preaching session, i led two souls to Jesus, but as i drove off, i couldn't help but be heartbroken at seeing the need for more laborers to take up the work of following up and establishing the new converts in the faith. It begs to be done. It must be done. Where will all the spiritual babies go if the workers will not get to nursing, and feeding and cleaning? I believe the heart of God weeps for the forgotten children, spiritual children...

Line Up With Heaven!

When the angel of the Lord appeared to Mary, it must have been a pretty overwhelming situation. Young, inexperienced in the 'things' of life, the message must have rocked her world. But i love what She did, and i belive if we can choose to be like her in the face of the promises that God has made to us, we shall experience days of heaven on earth. Read the story in Luke 1:26-40 1. We must call ourselves what God calls us :  Mary called herself, the maidservant of the Lord. To obtain what's promised, call yourself what God calls you! Prosperous, healed, married, delivered, joyful, fruitful.. What did God call you? then call yourself that. It's not pride, it's simply agreeing with God 2. We must Agreed to What was promised : She said, let it be to me according to your word. She said amen to God's will for her. Paul said to the corinthians (2 Cor 1:20) that the promises of God are Yea, and Amen as spoken by us. That means we say So be it to what God has said....

Transitioning!

Isn't it amazing how you can be looking at your life and be content about what it is until you have to ask someone to fill in your shoes? Well, that's been my musing for the last couple of months. Thinking about raising others and turning over to them the ministry has been very insightful into my own life. The way i do things, speak, entrust, empower and even relate has come to the fore as we pray and believe God for pastors to be raised in our church and for other churches. Turning over a church can be a scary experience! Yet a very rewarding one. First, it helps you see your life through another's eyes. It causes you to believe in others just like you believe in yourself, and allows you to become generous. In praise and Money as well! But seeing other people plug in and take up the leadership of the church is ultimately humbling, as it reveals our humanity and how God uses broken people to minister an unbroken gospel to a broken world. When we think we are perfect, Go...