Pastor Wa's Blog

The whole feminist empower women so they can do without men Ideology leaves a bad taste in my mouth. Yes, i'm all for assisting women get things going and become successful at business and life. It is a worthwhile effort, should be applauded, supported and given all the power it can to succeed. But when those ideals are tied together with the bra burning, men trashing, independent women only ideology that seeks to minimize men to mating agents only on the planet. I cringe at the manifold display of ignorance towards men and their role in life. Because a good cause is used to propagate a tragedy. It is true there are men responsible for some serious pain in this world. There are women who are scarred for life in the hands of men supposed to be their protectors, providers and caregivers. I weep at the mere thought of little girls molested, women with battered bodies and other unspeakable evils done by men entrusted the responsibility to care. That shouldn't be, and it must be

Relationships take work. Lots of it. And work is tiring. Infact we all work so we don't have to work. At least most of us do.We try as much as we can to separate between work and home life, and for the most part home is viewed as place of rest. Where we don't have to work again. Or at least not in the sense of applying ourselves hard. It's a hard reality to face, but needs to be faced nonetheless, because most people don't think of their current relationships as something that needs work. The natural progression of all things is towards disrepair and damage, relationships included. So it's always kinda strange when i hear people saying, "Things are not what they used to be." *Insert exasperated look*. What what did you expect? You haven't spent quality time with him/her, you keep unforgiveness and grudges, you laugh with your friends more, you are looking around and 'admiring' the handsome ones, the sex isn't all that, they are getting