Pastor Wa's Blog

In the funny dramatic/romantic comedy The Best man, the themes of fidelity, relational jelousy and believing in the good over the bad in a relationship are exposed painfully. Harper (the Best man) is helping Lance his buddy get married to Mia. They have been buddies for years. Lance is a player (Both on field and with women) and feels he's entitled to it. Unfortunately or otherwise, it comes up that his fiance Mia and Harper had a fling a while ago. Lance is convinced he's the first until the weekend of the wedding when the revelations come tumbling out and things head south. Whoa! Which brings up issues of jealousy in relationships. Especially when it comes to finding out about the past of the person you are with. This is a big deal especially for some people. VERY BIG DEAL! And mostly so for men. The truth of the matter is, with todays highly sexualized culture, it's likely that the person you end up with will have a sexual history they are not proud of. They may w

I totally had a good Christmas. After 8 years of hosting peeps, loving on them and laughing with them, i finally got invited to get out of town and ate myself silly. Some serious goat. Walala... i'm not sure i've recovered yet. Been dreaming of hitting the gym or a serious diet to pacify my guilty conscience. Anyhow, just thinking about how funny it is to tottally miss what you are looking for because of what you are looking at. The truth is, your life is waiting to start when you start making choices to start it. Not when circumstances allow it. You see living your dream is just that, Living a dream. Something unreal. It means it's something not existing in your current life setup. You are simply taking something unreal, and bringing it into your real world. Interesting huh? So, what makes you think you are gonna have to do some pretty mundane things to live a dream? I mean, comeon! if you want to live a life that's totally unlike the textbook Kenyan life, what