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The Problem with dating an Angry Soul

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Anger rests in the bosom of fools. That's the Bible, not some grey haired Philosopher seated somewhere sipping Lime cola. And I Agree. To rest mean's to abide. To make home at. To be free at. Angry people are souls that have decided to stay angry and execute actions stemming from their feelings. They feel entitled to live out their anger and unleash it on others. They have decided to allow anger dwell and abide in their life. Their reasons are as varied as their are interesting. It could be hurt, being taken advantage off, childhood tapes, or just plain ol' bad manners. Anger is real. It's a valid human emotion that can be used to right a wrong, or fight an injustice It's what helps us make choices to protect ourselves from being taken advantage of or even abused. Even so, anger can be a terrible master. With mighty and destructive power. And an ability to really hurt others, and to do so with incredible cruelty. Ask anyone that's been in a relati

So Does Age Really Matter?

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So does age really matter? A lady with a boyfriend   talked to me a while back. She was In a dilemma. She had prayed and waited for someone that would love her and make her feel special. After many years and much waiting, that person eventually did come. He was handsome, tall, loved her, was funny, mature, responsible, made her feel like a girl… and craziest thing of all,   was dying to marry her. She couldn’t resist this was real, and she was falling. Fast. The only problem was, this answer to her prayer was   11 years younger! Bummer! Or was it? The question whether age matters will not go away. I’m not sure how it came about that women must be younger than the men they marry… and I will not even delve into that. The cultural aspect of that has been with us for ages. So does age really matter? Well get ready for it, Yes It does, otherwise this wouldn’t be such an emotion provoking subject But it matters in ways much more different than we think. And as such is worth exploring and tal