Six Things Guys Notice Six Seconds after You Meet

Hi Ya'll
According to a new study, a person's physical appearance allows others to form surprisingly accurate first impressions. So as a lady, you may want to think twice about what kind of image you're projecting with these traits that men check out immediately. It makes a huge difference especially if you are believing for a relationship that will lead to marriage!
Hear it from me, and i ain't hating!

1. Your Smile
Does it seem sweet and genuine? Does it seem awkward and forced? Or you don’t smile at all? Smiling is a great way of communicating, saying I am happy about life and myself. Make sure the sukuma wiki  or whatever else you had for lunch doesn’t ruin your interactions.
2. Your Hair
Guys have no idea what split ends are, and if you mention roots, they may start thinking of reggae. But they do look to see if your hair looks 1. Soft 2. Like its being taken care of and 3. Like it would smell good. Hairstyles don’t have to be fancy and costly, just make sure its clean, taken care of, and has some nice smell coming out of it.
3. Your Makeup
If you're wearing so much makeup that it looks like you've painted an entirely new face on top of your actual face, guys will wonder if you're trying to cover up some major deformation! Facial or emotional.  Tafadhali dada, too much make up ‘utaishia kufanana na bibi ya shetani!’.
Key point here is, ‘keep it nice and simple’

4. Your Cleavage
Sorry girls, but it’s true! Guys DO look at your chest. Now, that's not to say they think all women should unbutton their shirts to their bellybuttons nor am I encouraging the boys to stare. Far from it. I'm Just saying to make sure you dress it right (you know what i mean)!, and don’t show too much of it. You may attract attention to the wrong places (or come across as needy)! While on the other hand, when it’s looking good, it will get you noticed!
5. Your Skin
An amazing fact is that guys rarely if ever notice a blemish or a mark on your face. Chances are guys won't pay attention! What will they notice? Strong chemicals and outrageous makeup trying to hide that. Or when you get fidgety and insecure about a blemish on your skin.
Also, make sure you moisturize your skin often so it looks soft and supple. If you powder, don’t go overboard. We may start thinking you’ve been to City Mortuary!
6. Your Bag
Did you know that hauling around a big purse — in other words, humongous rucksacks stuffed full of old receipts, emergency sweaters, and half-used bottles of ‘I-don’t-know-what’ speaks of  Drama and Issues? Now that may not be the case. But guys will go ahead and assume that anyway.
That’s for now! The six things guys will definitely notice within six seconds of meeting you!
Go ahead, quit complaining about guys not noticing or being interested in you! Just make good first impressions! It may mean a world of difference in your relationships with the boys!
 I will probably be talking to the guys in my next posting.
I appreciate if you’d leave your comments below!

Comments

mo'z dimension said…
LOL!! mdaya ur soo on point,needless to say the man who "found me" 1st noticed me with zero make up on n wondered how lovely i would look when i woke up in the morning,true story!!! so i guess the make up part does apply but selectively...and the smile part is soo on point...he loves mine as for who and when (wink wink) lets chat soon...
Kenyan Kairetu said…
am not a fan of make up(i only use lip balm),don't carry lumpy bags,...so am on the safe side!i love things downright simple.for the guys first thing i notice is their presentation,you don't need to be expensive but surely iron your shirt,comb your hair,brush your shoes,wear clean clothes...just the basic.the minute i meet a man shabbily put together....alarms go off in my head coz i know he wont take care of me,i mean he already cannot manage himself!!a man's attitude is the second thing i notice,negativity reads CODE RED,my fear is that he will be too critical of everything and frankly speaking people who over criticize are no fun to be around,we all love positive energy.otherwise cool post.

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