Pastor Wa's Blog

When the book men are from Mars and Women from Venus came out, it garnered incredible talking points on the differences among the sexes and their ramifications. I’ve personally never read it, though I think it once was somewhere in my library. Even so, i’ve heard it said endlessly that marriage is no fun. Especially for women. I beg to differ. Probably the happiest women are married ones; sadly, probably the unhappiest ones are also in marriage! Its an interesting paradox. One fact we need to know upfront, A man never holds the key to a woman’s happiness! Never! When a woman makes this mistake, get ready for some serious domestic ISSUES!. A woman’s happiness comes when she knows who she is, and living out that revelation to the max. Here is what I found to be the one determining factor to a woman being happy in marriage. Ready? EVERY HAPPILY MARRIED WOMAN HAS A VERY LOW TOLERANCE FOR BAD BEHAVIOR, EXCUSES, INDECENCY, WEAKNESS AND FOOLISHNESS IN HER HUSBAND! There. I said it. Sh...

Every now and then, shops and business places, homes and hotels close down to get redone. This happens as a necessity. The décor becomes too boring, new ownership, change of identity and entity, or just because. Usually, when we see this sign hanging somewhere, it usually brings a sense of expectation and excitement. Something new is about to be unveiled. What will the new colors be? How will the décor look like? How about the menu? Are they gonna loose that sour waitress? Questions questions questions! It’s usually time for change, because old won’t cut it, we have to close for renovation. Our lives do need renovation as well, especially where relationships are concerned. When was the last time you had a relationship overhaul? Or are you too needy to even dare institute change in the fear that you will loose? A couple of thoughts on renovation The people on the outside do not see what’s going on : Even the closest ones to you do not have to always know and approve what chan...