Pastor Wa's Blog

We will all face a broken or dead relationship at one point or another in life. Its crucial to know the power of moving forward and becoming bigger and better after the hurt. I challenge you to deal with any relationships that need closure in your life, it’s a great way of getting your emotional health back, and your life back 1.      Grieving is necessary : Take the time you need to grieve your loss. It may be a job, a loved one who passed on, a divorce, end of an engagement, or whatever. The reason we mourn is to bring closure to the emotional attachment that we had with the person, and its extremely important to do that. Its also good to note that grief is private and personal and people manifest it differently. Since no two people are alike, go through it your way, and if someone close to you is grieving, allow them to get the emotions out, without necessarily going overboard. Also, remember that grieving MUST have a specified period. I suggest up to six months...

Hey ya'll, I found this somewhere and thought it to be hilarious, with all the stuff being said about men, we need to relax a little and not take life too seriously. So here you are; Go ahead and laugh. 1. Men have higher body temperatures than women. If your heating goes out in winter, I recommend sleeping next to a man. Men are like portable heaters that snore.   2.  A good place to meet a man is at the dry cleaner. These men usually have jobs and bathe. 3. Women take clothing much more seriously than men. I've never seen a man walk into a party and say "Oh, my God, I'm so embarrassed; get me out of here. There's another man wearing a black tuxedo."   4. Men are sensitive in strange ways. If a man has built a fire and the last log does not burn, he will take it personally.   5. If a man prepares dinner for you and the salad contains three or more types of lettuce, he is serious.   6. Male menopause is a lot more fun than fem...

I had a great time on Hope FM Tuesday night with Tessy. As we opened and shared on her show, 'Breath Of Heaven', we had opportunity to delve into some issues that deal with Singles. As a pastor, I've always considered myself familiar with the Challenges of Young and 'not so young' singles. But spending time on the show and from the feedback we received, I realized that the wounds run deeper, the torment rougher and the loneliness unbearable. So, I've decided to share with you some of the truths that I shared on that cold rainy night; Busting the Myths of Single hood. Here are the Myths that have kept Many Singles Held back and Lied to by the enemy. Let's go! 1.   There's a 'Particular' mate for you out there:   This is hogwash! Hakuna! God never makes choices for us, and Marriage is all about choices. If this was true, then it means God is in violation of the Principle of Free will, a Cardinal pillar in the fall of man, Death and Resurrection o...