Pastor Wa's Blog

Reblogged  From http://diaryofasuperchamp.wordpress.com   In 2012 ,I was invited to be a member of a panel at a Christian singles conference. After speaking about living a purposeful life, and remaining pure in singleness, the topic of marriage invariably came up. A woman stood up and started pouring out her heart about how she desired a husband. How she was in her late thirties and did not want to be alone anymore. She said that she was on the verge of ‘settling’! In an attempt to comfort her, an older woman whom we will call Sarah stood up and proclaimed that she was single at 60 AND had never married. Sarah started to encourage the younger lady. She said,  look at me, I am 60 and not married but I will not settle. I want what God wants for me and will not settle for less. I have had many counterfeit men come into my life . Sarah then went ahead and started to rattle off about the men that had been   potential suitors   and what was wrong with them....

Love is awesome. So awesome, it barely comes alone. When a couple makes love, it's not just excitement that happens, its babies as well. And babies, well, they are a whole new ball game. They introduce an incredibly challenging, super demanding, dynamic in relationships that some people opt out of it altogether. The enormous changes that happen to a woman, (And rarely unspoken, the man) during pregnancy can cause significant tension in the home. Here are seven things Men, as the leaders of their homes need to know and do to help women navigate this delicate season. 1. Her Sex Drive will change : Pregnancy introduces intense and often severe hormonal changes in her body. Her sense of smell is acutely keen, her weight here and there (and mostly there), and a whole lot of other things. For some women, (lucky fellas) her sex drive hits an all time high (Ah, these puns). But for many others, it's the opposite that happens. She is totally turned off by even the thought of sex. Y...